So ladies you’ve found yourself back on the dating scene after years of wedded bliss (or so you thought).

You want romance and fun and frivolity now right?  You want to be swept off your feet and taken away for hot, sexy weekends and romantic picnics at the park. You want to be adored and pampered and loved.

You want someone who sees you as an equal and is not threatened by your success.  You want … a younger man.  Yes that’s right ladies, a younger man can give you all that and so much more.  So how do you get one? Read on and find out.

Jules Cobb in Cougar Town, like you, has been thrust back onto the dating scene.  And, like you, she has discovered that single men in their forties and beyond are damaged, gay or looking for a younger woman.  She’s not ready to become a nun, and neither are you, so why not become a cougar instead?

Jules epitomises all that a cougar woman is – sassy, sexy, confident, successful, independent and gorgeous.

You too can be like her and you won’t even have to drop your robe and flash your knickers on the street like she does to get the attention of a hot younger man.   Follow our advice and soon they’ll be begging you to take them back to your cosy little lair.

Confidence is a must for any self-respecting cougar.  Younger men like confidence in their older women.  They like to know you are in control, that you know what you want and how to get it.  How do you build confidence?  That’s easy.  Look after yourself.  Women who look good feel good and that’s attractive.  Go to the gym or do some other form of exercise.  Kick start those endorphins.  It’s sexy and intoxicating to younger men.

Next give yourself a makeover. Shout yourself some new clothes, get a new hair do and buy yourself some makeup.  Look at what gorgeous successful famous cougars like Demi Moore, Susan Sarandon and Cameron Diaz are wearing.  Go online for tips on the latest styles in clothes, hair and makeup and dressing to suit your body type.  Go for sexy glamour.  You want to look sophisticated and classy, not like a slapper.

Ok, so now you’ve got the look, how do you approach younger men and where?  The most obvious place is in bars and clubs.  Don’t be afraid to approach a younger man. They’ll be flattered that a sexy woman like you is interested in them. Ask him a question, compliment him on what he’s wearing, buy him a drink. Then let him do the rest.  He may be young but he’s a man and men like to take the lead sometimes.

The same applies anywhere you see a cub you’d like to get to know better. Let him know you’re interested, then let him do the rest.
If you want to be absolutely sure that a younger man will enjoy some sexy stalking,  why not try online dating.

Sites like cougared.com are pulsating with passionate and cute young men specifically looking for older women.  Why not send one a message and say hi?

Of course it won’t all be plain sailing once you’ve nabbed yourself a boy toy to play with.  While you both may be happily in lust, or dare we say it love, others will have their own opinions of your playful pairing, and they might not always be good.

Try not to take it too personally.  You don’t have to please other people. Remember be confident. Most ill feeling will be borne out of jealousy. Be yourself, be sensitive but don’t let other people’s feelings stand in the way of your happiness.

Of course if his mother is not happy, that’s different. Meet her and be empathetic.  Explain to her what you see in her son and reassure her you have her son’s best interests at heart by telling her how much you care about him.

He’s an adult remember and free to do as he chooses.

Demi Moore, the queen of the cougars, and her man Ashton Kutcher have been accepted not only by fans and friends alike, but also by her children and her ex-husband Bruce Willis.  It can happen and it can work.

And the more mainstream it becomes with programmes like Cougar Town leading the way, the more acceptable it will become. Life’s too short to miss out on a heap of sexy fun.  The secret is out. Beautiful older women and hot younger guys are hot. So get in on that action ladies, we know you want to.

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